802-233-0162

Barbara Boutsikaris, MS LCMHC

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802-233-0162

Barbara Boutsikaris, MS LCMHC

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  • SERVICES & FEES
  • NEW CLIENTS
  • SCHEDULE AN APPOINTMENT
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Welcome

Individual & Couples Therapy for Adults

Individual & Couples Therapy for AdultsIndividual & Couples Therapy for AdultsIndividual & Couples Therapy for Adults

Expert Couples Therapy for Lasting Relationship Transformation

 

Gain tools to increase connection,

intimacy & communication

Reach out to Barbara Boutsikaris

Welcome

I'm glad that you found me.


I have counseled adolescents & adults 

for over three decades.

I love my work.


I am currently accepting adults

for individual or couples work.


Just complete the 

New Client Information Form 

and 

I will be in touch.


What I Do

As a Vermont State Licensed Clinical 

Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC), 

Clinical Supervisor, Adjunct Professor, 

(and a non-denominational minister, I can bring you expertise in relational counseling. 


My clinical approach is primarily influenced by 

the extensive training under two of the world's leading relationship experts: Terrence Real  a

As a Vermont State Licensed Clinical 

Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC), 

Clinical Supervisor, Adjunct Professor, 

(and a non-denominational minister, I can bring you expertise in relational counseling. 


My clinical approach is primarily influenced by 

the extensive training under two of the world's leading relationship experts: Terrence Real  and Esther Perel.


By blending Terry Real's revolutionary Relational Life Therapy (RLT) with Esther Perel's groundbreaking insights on desire, modern love and infidelity recovery, I move far beyond traditional, passive "talk therapy."


How I Can Help

How I Can Help

A relationship thrives on two critical elements: absolute trust and vibrant intimacy. When either of these breaks down, a couple faces deep distress. In my private practice, I guide couples through the two most challenging terrains of partnership:

  • Healing From Betrayal: Infidelity or broken trust shatters your reality. I offer a clear, str

A relationship thrives on two critical elements: absolute trust and vibrant intimacy. When either of these breaks down, a couple faces deep distress. In my private practice, I guide couples through the two most challenging terrains of partnership:

  • Healing From Betrayal: Infidelity or broken trust shatters your reality. I offer a clear, structured, 3-phase framework to process the trauma, cultivate deep accountability, and guide you step-by-step from devastating heartbreak to mutual repair.
  • Awakening Intimacy: It is entirely possible to love your partner deeply but lose the spark of physical and emotional desire. We look beneath the surface of your daily routine to remove the blocks holding you back, helping you recreate a secure, passionate connection.

I provide a dedicated expert space to tackle complex issues and restore true intimacy.


As your therapist, I will:

  • stay curious and interested in your work;
  • listen without judgment;
  • communicate understanding;
  • witness your feelings;
  • provide direction & support;
  • teach you the skills you need to get out of therapy;
  • challenge your stressful beliefs;
  • and believe in your ability to think and act in new ways.

In Person Counseling

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Barbara Boutsikaris, MS LCMHC

5247 Shelburne Road, Shelburne, Vermont 05482, United States

802 233 0162

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